Ten misunderstandings of women about men
Karina, a famous Russian psychologist?
In an article in Pravda, Murtazarova pointed out that men are not what women imagine, breaking the top ten myths about men in women’s minds.
Karina pointed out that there are many misunderstandings of women’s views on men. For example: men never cry, all men are obsessed, men are good at lying, selfish and shy.
On the contrary, the real situation is completely different from these inherent stereotypes.
Misunderstanding 1: If you want to catch a man, you must first grab his stomach.
In fact, only a veteran bachelor who has long been accustomed to eating fast food and microwave oven food will be attracted by women’s cooking ability.
Of course, if a woman offers a beautiful dinner for a man, any man will be very grateful, and the modern man needs the attention of the woman, not her food.
Even if women can only make fried eggs, but if they serve men in a loving way, men will eat happily.
At this time, the effect of a fried egg is better than a French meal for many years.
Myth 2: Men should take the initiative.
In fact, men are usually shy when it comes to dragging and dragging. He needs great courage to make up his mind to be the first to speak.
In fact, many men have a “child complex”. When they do their best to irritate the girl they like, in fact, he wants to attract the girl’s attention. These adult men show the same psychology as little boys.
Therefore, it is recommended that women be more generous in their initiative at these times, but also be aware that excessive initiative will scare away men instead.
Myth 3: Men don’t understand love at all, they just want to have sex.
Psychologists once did statistics. More than 90% of men believe in everlasting love.
There is a difference in the feelings of love between men and women: women want to enjoy “friendship-like love”, and a long stream of love, while men very much want to get “passionate love”, and if a period of love does not develop physical closeContact, where does passion start?
Myth 4: Men are more selfish in bed.
In fact, men are selfish in this respect.
First of all, men do run through the sex process before women are satisfied. When men reach the tip of sex, women’s feelings have just begun. This is why many women reject men’s selfishness.
Of course, this is determined by the physical and psychological characteristics of men and women, not by men.
If men pay more attention to foreplay, then this problem will no longer be a problem.
It is therefore an exaggeration to say that men are selfish in bed.
Why do men have to subdue women?
—- Silly man, don’t deceive yourself.
Which of the men is not lustful, and the women are not pregnant?
The sage has a cloud: “It is difficult for a woman and a villain to raise a child”, “If you are not near, you are resentful.”
At present, the “Green Hat Team” is becoming increasingly large, and if you do not want to join, you should face the reality.
Myth 5: Men only like women’s beautiful appearance.
Of course, men are attracted to beauties.
However, in the eyes of men, women’s beauty ranks third behind sexy and temperament.
If you want to win the hearts of men, women should behave more naturally and more rashly, instead of just making a vase with a beautiful appearance.
Myth 6: Men like unspoken and outspoken women.
This is a misunderstanding. Although men admire frank women, if a woman often takes out her secrets and talks, she will scare men away.
A woman is an expert in twists and turns. You must know that mystery often arouses great interest from men.
Myth 7: The worse you treat a man, the better he treats you.
In fact, there is a degree to which this sentence applies.
If a woman is too indifferent to his man, or constantly tests his patience with his waywardness, meanness, and arrogance, any man will choose to avoid this woman.
Experts believe that such behavior will only appeal to gentlemen or masochists who have a very low self-evaluation. Myth 8: Strong and confident men are never satisfied with life and never cry.
Doctors often say that persistent stress from negative emotions is the culprit for heart disease and stroke.
And psychologists also believe that it is good for humans to occasionally show the fragile side of their character.
Constantly beating in adversity can make a man with strong willpower.
Myth # 9: Real men are always very decisive.
A man is not a robot. He is only a human. If he is hesitant or skeptical about his actions, it is normal.
Women don’t blame men for being indecisive, let him think, let him compare all opportunities, and he will make the right choice.
Myth 10: Men are animals without feelings, and they will not be moved by something.
In fact, men’s psychology sometimes experiences the baptism of stormy emotions.
Men are more vulnerable than women when they encounter certain things.
Therefore, a wise woman will always find the key to unlock a man’s heart, rather than accusing him of indifference.